Kink compatibility checklist2/7/2024 ![]() What do u like about being a Daddy/Mommy/little?Ģ. Can I have references of ur past littles/Daddies/Mommies? (If this is something u desire)ġ. What past experience do u have with DD/lg, or BDSM overall?ġ7. Are u a virgin? If so, are u waiting for marriage, or something else?ġ6. If a sexual dynamic is desired, will u be willing to get tested for STI's and provide paperwork?ġ5. Do u have any sexual diseases, mental disabilites, physical conditions or other alignments?ġ4. If u are poly, do u prefer a family dynamic where everyone knows and engages with each other? Or a dynamic where everyone knows about each other, but does not have romantic or sexual relations with each other? Perhaps something else?ġ3. Are u mono, poly, a swinger or something else?ġ2. Are u looking for a gf/bf, gf/gf, bf/bf relationship as well, or a strictly DD/lg dynamic?ġ1. Are u looking for a platonic or romantic dynamic?ġ0. Is this dynamic nonsexual, strictly sexual, or a mix of both for u?ĩ. Do u desire a long term or short term dynamic?Ĩ. Are u dating someone currently? If so, are they aware u are dating others?ħ. Are u single in both the vanilla and DD/lg world?Ħ. What is ur sex and gender? Female, male, intersex, transgender, genderfluid etcĥ. It also helps with getting past the, "Hi. These questions are not intended to be asked in 1 sitting/1 conversation, but rather ideas of questions to ask over time in order to get to know someone better. ![]() No question is too small and no answer is obvious. My biggest tip when speaking to a potential partner is to not assume ANYTHING. Take what applies to u, edit questions to fit u, and leave the rest. Consider this a helping guide and by no means a rule book. ![]() This is aimed for ppl seeking a serious dynamic vs a play partner or rp situation. I have skipped super vanilla questions like, "what's ur fav " as I think we would be sitting here all day lol. I decided to sit down and make a list of questions to ask a potential DD/MD or little, that I hope will help increase ppl's odds of finding a compatible partner. How do u know when u are compatible with a potential DD/lg partner? By asking questions of course, but which ones? I remember when I was new and had no idea what to ask a potential Dom. Something we are always hearing about on this forum is the importance of compatibility. ![]()
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